Monday, September 11, 2006

Loss

Acts of hatred and violence will never end, will they? Whether they're done in the name of religion or power, or simply as extreme manifestations of ego, they continue to be with us.

After everything has been said and done, the rhetoric doesn't really matter. Eloquently empty speeches are about as lovely as the taste of grass in one's dry mouth after a hard and lonely night. The victims of these terrible, grandiose schemes concocted by megalomaniacs are for the most part just ordinary people: they're someone's mother, father, sibling, child, spouse, lover, neighbor, friend. They just went off to work one ordinary morning, and never came home again.

Whether such violence occurs in New York City or in the Middle East or in Asia or wherever, the result is the same: grieving family and friends who cannot understand the why, only that they are suffering a loss that is almost too terrible to bear. To these people, my heart goes out to you.

The following sad -- yet somehow hopeful -- poems come to mind. The first one is a 19th-century poem, and it was part of an article in a 2001 issue of Reader's Digest. The second one is something I wrote a few years back.

Death Is Nothing at All
by Canon Henry Scott-Holland

Death is nothing at all
I have only slipped away into the next room
I am I and you are you
Whatever we were to each other
That we are still
Call me by my old familiar name
Speak to me in the easy way you always used
Put no difference into your tone
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed
At the little jokes we always enjoyed together
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was
Let it be spoken without effort
Without the ghost of a shadow in it
Life means all that it ever meant
It is the same as it ever was
There is absolute unbroken continuity
What is death but a negligible accident?
Why should I be out of mind
Because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you for an interval
Somewhere very near
Just around the corner
All is well.
Nothing is past; nothing is lost
One brief moment and all will be as it was before
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!

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Closure

Listening to the rain
Watching several drops hit and fall
Down my window pane
Faster than the tears rolling down my face

Wondering, marvelling at the quicksilver nature of life
One life, here one day, gone the same day
Like the raindrop that fell down my window pane
Like the tear that fell down my face

Refusing to let go
Would be like refusing to let the raindrops fall
To nourish something else

7 comments:

Sidney said...

Alas, it seems that violence will never end...

Great poems!

Lizza said...

Thanks, Sidney!

Glad to see you back here. Have a great week!

Mimi Lenox said...

I haven't read Henry Scott-Holland's poem in many years. I'd forgotten how beautiful it is.
Both poems are very comforting. Thank you.

NanNan said...

That global grief thing today-- could almost feel it in the atmosphere, nice poems, comforting, am wondering what inspired you to write "closure", if it isn't too personal-- My son died 3 years ago--- that's mainly why I started my blog-- people are uncomfortable talking about death, and I need to vent--- I like the line in your poem about letting the raindrops fall---- and I'm glad our blogpaths crossed--- I knew you would love H--- she's an incredible writer, like yourself--

Lizza said...

Mimi, thank you. Some people find them sappy, but I think they're comforting too.

nannan, I'm terribly sorry about your loss. The poem was inspired just by the thought of death, dying, and loss. I enjoy reading your blog too; I'm glad it helped you deal with losing your son. And yes, H is incredible.

houseband00 said...

Hi Lizza,

Those are wonderful pieces that you have shared.

Thanks. =)

Lizza said...

Hi HB,

You're quite welcome. :-)